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Co-parenting strategies after the divorce

Alabama parents who get a divorce must still deal with co-parenting issues. This can be challenging when parents are missing important moments in their children's lives or struggling to communicate, but it is possible to build a functioning co-parenting relationship even after a difficult divorce.

For example, a parent can take a photo or send a message to the other parent when the child brings home a good report card or a piece of art. This can be part of each parent's larger strategy to encourage the child's relationship with the other parent. Parents should make an effort to say positive things about one another when they are with the child. It is also helpful if parents can present a unified front. Children feel more secure if rules and expectations are consistent between households. However, parents should also be flexible when it is appropriate. For example, one parent might plan a special treat during the other parent's time with the child. If it will make the child happy, it may be best to allow it.

Parents may struggle to communicate effectively after a divorce, but it is important that they do not use their children as messengers. Email, text and even online tools are all ways they can communicate if talking is difficult. Family therapy or a co-parenting class may also be options.

Making an agreement about child custody can be difficult, but it does not have to mean that parents end up in litigation. It is often possible for them to reach an agreement with the assistance of their attorneys. If they do go to court, a judge will consider a number of factors, such as the child's age and who the child's main caregiver is. Parents may share custody, or one may have sole custody while the other has visitation rights.

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