Co-parenting during and after divorce is already full of emotional and legal challenges. In today’s digital era, another upcoming source of conflict is the issue of posting children on social media. Whether it is TikTok videos, Instagram stories or YouTube vlogs, your child’s image could end up online during the other parent’s parenting time—and you may disagree with it.
This is more than just a personal preference. Sharing images or videos of your child online can raise privacy concerns, trigger safety risks or even violate agreements made during your divorce. If you are uncomfortable with what is being shared, it is important to understand where the law and parenting agreements merge.
Likes can turn into legal concerns
Social media is now part of everyday life, but it is still a gray area when it comes to parenting time. Unless your custody order specifically restricts digital exposure, your ex might legally be allowed to post your child.
But that does not mean it is in your child’s best interest. You may consider setting limits because of:
- Privacy: Your child may not want their life on display. This is especially true as they grow older and become more aware.
- Safety: Posts that show your child’s location, school or habits can put them at risk.
- Consent: Children cannot truly consent to being featured online, especially if it is tied to a monetized platform.
- Emotional harm: Your child could face embarrassment, teasing, harm or pressure from being filmed or photographed too often.
To avoid ongoing arguments, try discussing social media use during parenting time as part of your parenting plan. Some parents agree to block out their child’s face or limit sharing to private groups. These compromises can protect your child while keeping both parents involved.
However, if you and your ex do not see eye to eye on this, legal help might be necessary. It is okay to draw the line when it comes to your child’s safety and peace of mind.
