Maintaining a healthy relationship with your child can feel like an uphill battle when their other parent isn’t respecting the custody order. They may be making it difficult to pick up or drop off your child on time, limiting your access to important events in your child’s life. Your ex might even actively trying to turn your child against you.
Fortunately, you are not powerless, even if you’re a non-custodial parent. You have rights, and you should not let these actions go unchallenged. Here is what you can do to address custody interference.
Understand what amounts to custody interference
Custody interference goes beyond minor mistakes or occasional scheduling conflicts; these unintentional slip-ups do not count. For your co-parent’s behavior to qualify as interference, it typically must be a pattern of intentional actions that disrupt your parental rights. Understanding this distinction and which violations pertain to your current custody orders is crucial.
Document every instance
Keeping a record of any instances of interference is essential. Demonstrating systemic actions by your co-parent can significantly help your case. Note the dates, times and what happened, including any text messages, emails or other communication showing the interference.
Communicate with your co-parent
A direct and calm conversation with your co-parent can help resolve the matter. Share your concerns clearly and explain why the current situation isn’t in the child’s best interests. Avoid accusations and focus on resolving everything amicably.
Get help
If your co-parent’s interference continues even after you attempt to find a resolution, you may need to explore your legal options. This may involve seeking the court’s intervention. Reaching out for qualified guidance can help you understand your rights and the steps you can take to enforce the custody order and protect your child’s well-being.
